Last updated on January 24th, 2022
Is making yourself free from all kinds of fears, toxic things, anger, and guilt easy? No, hell no! Then why do you get some advice from all the scholars every time? Because it’s necessary to walk the path of good mental health. So, how do you free yourself? By daring! Yes, you have to just dare to dream & improve your mental health!
Dare To Dream
Dare to forgive when it seems impossible. You will be amazed to know how light you are feeling after forgiving them. Because it is the same thing you expect from God when you make mistakes. If you can expect forgiveness from God for yourself, you should also develop the quality to forgive others.
Dare to love when you have been deprived of it yourself. You can visit an orphanage to get love. You will know how much love you can exchange with those children.
Dare to help, when you are in dark. You will be amazed to know, how you are helping yourself by helping others. As, what goes around, comes around.
Dare to lose yourself in helping others in their destitution (indigences), when you are left with nothing. Helping only with a prosperous hand does not make a difference..!
Dare to lose yourself in fulfilling someone else’s dreams when you are waiting for yours to come true. Being the angel of hope for their dreams only when you are eating fruits of abundance doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to dream again and lose urself to becoming someone’s hope when you are surrounded by despair. Being the light in someone’s dark only when life is a bed of roses for you doesn’t make any difference
Dare to open your heart’s preciousness to love those who are hard to love. Be different to show them that love is the answer to all vices of the world. As loving only those who value your love leave the hearts who are destitute of love, abandoned. Loving the people by measuring their heart’s power to love you back doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to love again when your heart is broken. Let each piece of your soul taste the power of love again even when love has been the reason for pouring hatred in you. Loving only when your soul is dancing on the rhyme of love doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to forgive people when they are behind the reason of your soul’s scariest scars and even they don’t ask for an apology. Show the golden side of your heart. As forgiving only what is forgivable and when they apologise doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to leave your rights for needy ones when you can avail of the opportunity. Let the world know you are not only rich by your mind but also rich by ur heart. As leaving your right when you are left with no option, doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to lose yourself in the service of others when you need a helping hand. I promise, it enriches your soul and gives you divine-like happiness. Servicing mankind when prosperity lives at your door doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to have faith in God when He has taken everything from you. Faith is the only path walking on which you can unburden your soul. As singing the glory of God, when all your desires are fulfilled isn’t an actual walk with God, it doesn’t make any difference.
Dare to start living as an optimistic, when pessimism is all around your way. As living with a cheerful conscience when life is giving u every chance to dance with it doesn’t inspire anyone’s life, it doesn’t make any difference.
Dare to dream again, when your dreams look like a punishment to you. when your dreams had exhausted your mind and soul to the extent that it gives a poisonous effect to even think of them. Finding the ways to fulfil your dreams when mere imagination of them is the source of your power doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to be adamant in standing up with the right when doing so leaves u in a storm of difficulty. As nodding your head with right and praising the good when it costs you nothing doesn’t give any meaning, it doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to listen to the pain of those who ignored you in your disaster. As is the reason of relieving the pain of only those who were your side in your rain doesn’t show your real character, it doesn’t change anything, it doesn’t make a difference.
Dare to be honest when crooked ones are leaving no stone unturned to bring you in the morass of corruption. As merely talking of honesty doesn’t make a difference
Dare to be loyal to your loved ones even when they have played the game of betraying you. As loyalty is the characteristic of yours, don’t let their betrayal downgrade your character. And changing your loyalty based on others’ behaviour is not the true definition of loyalty, it doesn’t make any difference.!
Dare to have patience with those whom you love or they are your responsibility and something in them makes you hate them to the extent of leaving them. As patience is not the weakness it is a virtue and strength. And patience comes with hope. The hope that will bring change in them. Leaving them out of impatience doesn’t make a difference..!
Dare to have patience in the situations when everything you earned, every relation which used to be the strength of your soul, is at stake. As if this present baffling situation controls your patience, it degrades the word ” patience “. By your endurance, you will regain what you lose today. Letting this baffle you don’t make any difference.
How to Dare?
Just follow one simple rule, whenever something is disturbing you, just DARE TO do the same thing with double force. Try to give others the same thing you are lacking in your life. If you have a feeling of lack of love or helplessness, help others. If you are not getting someone’s apology, try to forgive those who have hurt you.
Remember, nobody’s life is perfect, no one is perfect. If you can make one kind of mistake in your life, you can make other kinds of mistakes that caused extreme harm to you or vice versa.
Just do not judge. Think, how would you feel, when you desperately want someone’s forgiveness, and he/she keeps hating you.
Final Words: Dare to Dream & Improve Your Mental Health
You might be complaining here, it is a self-torture rather than recovering happiness. I hated these kinds of lectures during my teenage.
Trust me, I am not here to irritate you. I just want to tell you, these daring deeds eventually ended up helping me.
There is a time in life when some situations and some lessons keep getting repeated until we learn from them. I was not an exception too. I was holding onto a grudging attitude which was hindering my growth.
I went through self-annoyance, anxiety, depression and finally decided to leave the town of self-pity.
I had to learn it’s not always about yourself. Sometimes you can free yourself from the guilt of mistakes by only freeing someone else using tools of mercy, love, faith, and hope. You just need to dare to dream again.
Sometimes, you need to take an extra step. Sometimes, your salvation lies in the happiness of others. Just DARE ONCE TO try them blindly. Just DARE TO DREAM. Though it may hurt you in the beginning, eventually you will feel divine-like happiness.
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- 30 stress buster activities to help you get mental happiness
- 40 positive things to say to yourself every day
- Learn to ignore things & be happy
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